She needs tubes in her ears. They are filled with fluid which is significantly impacting her hearing. I know that this is the most common surgery for kids. It’s over in 5 minutes. Recovery is half a day. It’s no big deal. I know that.
The nurse practitioner said they’d give her a sedative first so that she’s calm and relaxed and doesn’t have a problem separating from me for the surgery. I’m wondering if they can give me a dose of that stuff too.
I can’t stop imagining them taking her from my arms and putting her under general anesthesia. I keep imagining her just laying there asleep.
She’s going to do just fine. I’m going to do just fine. She’s His child, and He’s had His arms wrapped around her from the first moment she was born, protecting her and caring for her when she had no mother’s arms to do so. I know that He is with her, and He is with me.
We have to get clearance from the cardiologist before we can schedule the surgery. I’m hoping it’s sooner than later so we can just do this and get her hearing where she should be.
Remember when I had to take Grace for her tubes? I was so upset, but it really is no big deal! Weren’t you the one telling me your sister had them and could hear so much better afterwards. Maybe she cried over the sound of the toilet flushing or something??? We’ll pray for your comfort and strength on that day!
I’ll be praying! Make sure you let me know when it is! And I totally get it. We are going Wed. for Kate’s heart appointment and I’m all nerves.
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I hope this makes a big difference for Lydia. And, I totally agree – it’s never easy to turn our children over for something like this even when we know it’s not a “big deal”! That’s why we had both our boys tubes done together. I didn’t really want to go once, let alone twice!
I understand the anxiety very well! You are right She IS His daughter. His hand will be upon her and her doctor and we will all be praying!
thinking of you and Lydia. i know its hard, but you will be strong.
Kelly,
They do give medicine to make it easier for the children to separate from their parents. Sophia never knew that I was going away. As hard as it was on me, I knew it was in her best interest! We will be thinking of Lydia. Parker needs tubes too!
Tricia
Let us know when, please. Letting go is extremely hard. Grant went in for surgery shortly after he was home (around 19 months). He really cared less that he was being held by and nurse and carried away from me (thank you Versed) but he was pretty irritated when he woke up! It is difficult. I’ll be praying!
Praying for sweet Lydia !
Nicole
What a sweet little thing. I understand your concern. Praying that all will go well.
Following your blog now!
Hello my dear friend – you have supported me through so much with Matthew and all of his testing and unknowns, I will be right here along side you praying for you and offering as much help as I can for you, for Lydia, and for your family, You will get through this, but it so hard handing your child off to someone else regardless of the medicine they give them…..it is still hard for me and I’ve done pediatric Onology nursing for 14 years, when it’s your own baby, it’s so different. I’m here, praying for you, and will be ready with whatever help and support you may need. Send me details friend, and I have been able to get kids into CHOP’s cardiology program quicker, so let me know if you run in to trouble with that! Love ya!
Oh, I know what you mean, when maggie had to be put under for dental surgery, I wished I could have been put under as well…LOL! I will be praying for the both of you~
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It just never is easy no matter how ‘simple’ the procedure is. I’m praying for you and for your sweet daughter that the Lord will bring His peace that passes all understanding to you as you wait and on that big day.
Hug her close and kiss those sweet cheeks!
Shannon
Ahhh…no mother in this world could not relate to this feeling Kelly. Everytime I look at my daughters scar on her little chest, I am reminded of how brave she is to go through all that without anyone permanent in her life to hold her hand, or sooth her pain in a way only a family can. I for one am thankful she has you and such a beautiful family to wrap their arms around her when she gets home. I know you are too. What a blessing that is–that many of us take for granted.
I know it’s easier said than done, but try to keep in mind she’ll be so much happier (not that she’s not already) when she can hear the world clearly! She’ll be a new girl indeed! God has always had her in the palm of His hand and surely He will on this day as well.
The bigger concern for me would be her heart. I have a heart babie, as you know–now that’s really scarey! I’ll pray her heart is ok–and this all goes smooth as silk. :)
Awww, I know how you feel. Kaitlyn had to have a minor surgery when she was about 11 months old. I remember the lost sleep and worry over it, even though it was very minor. We had to take special precautions as well, because of the VSD. They gave her the “happy juice”, as they called it, to sedate her, but she never really relaxed from it, so of course there were many tears when they took her from me…mostly from me. Her surgery was over in 10 minutes, and I couldn’t wait to get her in my arms again. We’ll be praying for you! And for a successful outcome for Lydia!
We’ll be praying for sweet little Lydia..and you! She is such a little cutie – love her outfit and backpack!!
Thanks Kelly for sharing your blog! Love it – and I got the other site to work for me, must have been my computer. Hope you have a great day… your little girl is so cute!
heidi Z.
Will be praying it goes great! None of mine have ever had tubes! I know I would feel the same way!! She is so precious!
Praying here too. Minor surgery is NOT minor when it’s your own child, and when you have to sign those papers saying you understand the risks involved with surgery. {HUG} The “goofy juice” really does make it where the kids don’t remember leaving you.
Praying for your sweetness! I think Mia Hope is going to be getting tubes…her hearing is impaired as well. We see the ENT next week. I too get very overwhelmed by all of the appts. Hang in there!
Love and blessings,
Robin
ohhhh, poor sweet Lydia! I know it might be the most common child’s surgery, but that doesn’t ease the pain of a mama’s heart for her babies. Just knowing she is in HIS hands, DOES make a difference though. Praying you BOTH through!! <>< Hugs,
Tanya
I feel your pain. I do. I was a wreck at the thought of a sedated ABR when Li’l E was only 18 mos. old…. A wreck. The Boss and I both cried when they took her away. And when she woke up, we cried with her :)
But you are in EXCELLENT hands there. You know that. And HE’S got you all in His hands. And we will pray for you. Cuz it’s no small thing for a momma to give care of her little one over to anyone. Ever. I feel ya.